Awwww...Valentines Day. It's the day that many love and the day that many dread! For me, I have experienced both the joy of the day and much heartache associated with it as well.  

Since a young age I have deeply desired a romantic life, only to experience disappointment after disappointment. As soon as I thought I had obtained what I wanted, I would start to see it slip away.... 
I had pretty much given up on LOVE... 

UNTIL! I realized just what I was doing WRONG! I was always waiting for "him" to give me what I wanted. I was waiting for my true love to show up, or waiting for the guy I was with to "get it together" and give me the love that I wanted. 

When I realized that I was giving away my power and the life that I wanted was resting upon what men were doing or not doing for me,  I was able to turn things around for myself. 

I decided that the amazing love story that I wanted only ever beings NOW! I began to create a beautiful love affair with my own life. I chose to open my heart to men and my goodness did they ever show up! I would like to show as many women as possible how to do this for themselves. It is all within you, but it is nice to have someone point that out:)

Now I know my boyfriend is coming up with some sweet things to do for me on Valentines Day and that feels really nice and I am thankful for it. But what feels really AMAZING is the things I am planning to do for myself and everyone I LOVE!  


Here are some things I have thought of that really LIGHT MY FIRE! 
* Buying myself some dance classes...something fun and sexy like Salsa, Tango or West Coast Swing 
* Or maybe I will get myself a massage...yes that sounds nice! 
* Preparing a candle lit dinner for my kids 
* Maybe I will go soak in some hot springs and have a long, relaxing meditation! Mmmmmmmm.... 
* I will keep it to myself what I am planning to do for him ;)

All these wonderful things light me up, make me feel happy, connect me with my feminine glowing essence.
In the end, you are the one you are in relationship with! Partners may come and go...but you will always be with you.

Give yourself what ever it is that you are wanting from others and become the love of your life!
I hope you choose to make tomorrow a day of romance no matter what your relationship status is! I wish for you love, beauty, and joy! 

Sincerely, Melanie Williams
P.S. Meetup groups will be starting up in March. Details coming soon...